Master Your Motivation: A Practical Guide to Unstick Yourself, Build Momentum and Sustain Long-Term Motivation (Mastery Series Book 2) by thibaut meurisse

Author:thibaut meurisse [meurisse, thibaut]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3
Published: 2019-07-07T00:00:00+00:00

Exercise: do the impossible

Write down everything you think you could never do. Now, select one thing on this list and commit to doing it this week or this month.

B. Meet new people

Have you ever felt as though you can’t find your tribe? If so, instead of looking for the right people to connect with, why not attract them? Why not create an event they would want to join?

Often, we tend to forget how much power we have to create the reality we desire. We can allow our external environment to determine what our lives are going to be, instead of deciding what we want. We often let what happens to us dictate our lives. However, in truth, what happens to us is not that important. What matters is what we do about it. We don’t have to change what’s outside, we only have to change what’s inside. And, as we change, everything changes for us.

You aren’t a powerless creature. You can proactively create the environment you want to live in. You can create the circumstances that allow you to meet the people you want to meet and achieve the goals you want to achieve. So why not work on creating your own eco-system? Why not create your own tribe? This is more effective than simply hoping you’ll meet the right people.

Fortunately, these days, it has never been easier to create your own group. For example, one of my friends created a personal development group in London, which allows him to meet cool people while pursuing his dreams—he is in the field of personal development.

A few weeks ago, I joined an English conversation Meetup. I was looking for something to do, and this was one of the only activities I could find in my city. I learned that it was a brand-new event creating by a French woman who had returned to France after living in Scotland for seven years. Like me, she couldn’t find any similar activity in her area, so she created the event.

What about you? What new activities could you join or create to help you move toward your goals and dreams? Who do you want to be surrounded by, and what events could you create to attract them into your life?

Do you want to be around vegans, young entrepreneurs, avid readers, growth-oriented people? Remember, it’s hard to feel motivated when you’re not surrounded by people who have similar values and a similar vision to you. And I’m afraid it’s your responsibility to attract these people into your life. If you haven’t done this before now, it’s probably for one of the following reasons:

Your vision is shaky: You have no clear direction.

Your values are unclear: You have no specific set of rules to live by. As a result, you follow the crowd and are easily influenced by people around you. Perhaps you allowed your parents to choose your career for you. Perhaps you’re mimicking your friends’ lifestyles. Ask yourself, is your current environment a reflection of who you really are? If not, determine what needs to change.

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